My Boyf is a generous man and I am a spendy ho, this means that towards the end of the month if we are out for dinner he very kindly pays for it. I initially found it quite hard to accept this as I’m not used to being in that position. I do realise that some of the looking after him that I do is not monetary. For example, cooking for him, which is cheaper than taking him out but of course requires effort on my part as well. And then of course there is emotional support, which he gives me as well, but perhaps in a less pushy manner…
So anyway it’s payday on Friday and I’d like to do something for him to show him how much i appreciate him. It doesn’t need to involve a lot of money, but it needs to be thoughtful. Cooking is out, because i do that quite a lot anyway. Perhaps I need to do some lateral thinking on this one, but if anyone had any ideas, feel free to express them. He likes (in no particular order); cycling, gadgets, the internet, drinking, eating, books (particularly books on structures, cycling and other miscellaney), maps, cakes! (but they’re out this week on account of dietary requirements) and clothes.
